Setting Boundaries Makes for a More Fulfilling Life

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July 22, 2016
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Saying no does not make you a bad person. It is something you have to do, if needed, for your wellbeing. It is impossible to meet everyone’s expectations and spread yourself thin doing all the things you have committed to. If you want to avoid needless pressure and stress, you have to firmly say no to things you cannot do without sacrificing the time you need to focus on the more important ones. Setting clear boundaries protects your emotional, mental, and physical health. It is necessary in building positive relationships to people around you and in nurturing your self-worth.

Know and accept your limits

You have to know and accept your boundaries. Understand the limits of what you allow to happen in your life. Everything you accomplish depends on your ability to focus on the things that are important in pursuing your personal goals. You cannot let anyone use your compassion, kindness, and willingness to help manipulate you to abandoning your own goals. You have to protect your own dreams and the time you need to work on them. And you have to stay true to your own beliefs.

Emotional boundaries. Healthy relationships uplift and strengthen you. On the flipside, unhealthy attachments can make you emotionally vulnerable. Behaviors and words that chip away your self-esteem should not be acceptable. The longer you stay in relationships that do you no good, the longer it robs you of opportunities to grow.

Mental or psychological boundaries. Your beliefs, choices, and decisions are your own. Weak boundaries, however, can inadvertently allow others to influence your thoughts. Finding ways to set boundaries empowers you to gain clarity of your personal belief systems and try to live up to them in your own way.

Physical boundaries. The sense of privacy and personal space may vary from person to person. But they form part of the physical boundaries many choose to protect. Setting clear physical boundaries can help establish limits as to how much physical distance, level of closeness, and infringement on your privacy you are willing to tolerate.

Setting boundaries

Be nice but stand your ground. Your personal boundaries and feelings matter as much as others’. Use assertiveness and directness to send your message. Just make sure to do it in a nice way. Be clear about the message you wish to send instead of letting others guess or figure it out for themselves. While many people may be more discerning than others, being direct minimizes the chance of misinterpretations and misunderstandings.

Honor your feelings. Pay attention to your feelings, especially when it involves anger and discomfort. Anger caused by resentments or frustrations may suggest that you are pushing beyond your limits to meet others’ expectations. It would help to keep in mind that something that you would willingly or happily do for others would not trigger ill feelings or negative emotions from you.

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You Can Do Anything

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August 18, 2017
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As much as we’d like to deny it, the fact remains that we all live in a world full of cruelty. As much as we’d like to deny it, the fact also remains that we all live in a world full of criticism.

The worst part of all? Both happens to be just about anyone in this world – be it a kid or a senior, be it a teen or a junior, be it a man or a woman, be it a gay or a lesbian, be it a Caucasian or a Negroid, be it a Nordic or a Mediterranean, be it a learner or a quitter, be it a healthy or a sickly, and the list goes on.

But you know what?

No matter who you are, no matter what gender you may have, no matter what race you are in, and no matter what you are only capable of – there’s always a silver lining for you. Even if you’re already a senior and you’re still a teen, you can always count on a silver lining to help you overcome what needs to be overcome. Even if you’re just a woman or obviously a man, you can always count on a silver lining to help you realize what needs to be realized. Even if still a healthy or already a sickly, you can always count on a silver lining to experience what needs to be experienced.

You might ask, though. What’s a silver lining got to do with anyone in the world?

You see, anyone in the world can be cruelled upon. You also see, anyone in the world can be criticized upon. However, there’s only a few who can act upon those who were cruel with them. However, there’s also a few who can act upon others’ cruelty. And however, there’s only a few who can advise upon those who were criticizing with her? However, there’s also a few who can advise upon others’ criticisms.

That’s when a silver lining enters. That’s when a silver lining makes one see the good side of every cruel person. That’s when a silver lining makes one experience the good side of every critical person. Moreover, that’s when a silver lining made me do whatever it is that I thought was never possible. Furthermore, that’s when a silver lining makes us do whatever it is that we thought were never possible.

Simply put, you can do anything.

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Creating A Better Version Of Yourself

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May 17, 2017
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No matter what you’ve gone through, you deserve better. No matter what you’ve done, you deserve better. No matter who you are, you deserve better.

Even more so, you deserve a second chance – to live happily.

And that chance? It’s creating a better version of yourself.

Here are some ways:

Learn how to forgive. Learn how to ask for forgiveness.

Creating a better version of yourself starts with no one else – but you. It also doesn’t start by forgetting those who hurt you nor by forgetting those you’ve hurt. It starts by forgiving other people for hurting you. It starts by forgiving yourself for hurting other people. Most of all, it starts by asking for forgiveness – not just to the people you’ve hurt, but also to Him.

Listen with the intent to understand. Not with the intent to respond.

Sometimes, all we need is someone who can listen to us – without any judgments, without any reprimands. The same goes for other people. Listen with your heart. Listen with your mind. Listen with your soul. Because in the end, it will all come down to your presence – by simply being there, listening with understanding and empathy.

Accept people for who they are. Everyone deserves to be respected.

No matter who they are, you should accept people for they are – including their strength and their weaknesses. No matter who they are, everyone deserves to be respected – including their values and their beliefs. People should not let anyone change them, just for others to accept them. People should also not let anyone strike them, just for others to respect them.

What do you think about this blog post? Are you looking to be a better person now? Or are you a better person now?

Do you know any other ways to create a better version of yourself? Share your ideas with us on the comments section below!

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Virtual Reality Explained

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June 4, 2016
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When generally talking virtual realities it refers to a computer technology that involves creating a special unique world which mostly is in three-dimensional. The user of the world can explore and manipulate it while having a feeling as if he was in that world. This technology was invented by a combination of engineers, theorists and scientists and the most important thing with this is that they have also invented relevant applications and devices to enable achievement of this virtual reality goal. Virtual realities which are created artificially bring about sense-related experiences which may include smell, hearing, touch and sight. The most recent virtual realities are created in different devices which may include computer screens or in special virtual reality headset which are referred by the name head-mounted display.

In many occasions people have argued on what is exactly constitutes the virtual reality. People have given their view on this matter in which some of the views are true but unfortunately others are not. On that note let us look at what exactly is the virtual reality made of.

Images. The virtual reality has images that are mostly in three dimensional and this images appear in a life size depending on how exactly the user can see them from where he is looking from.

Ability to track a user’s motion. This generally is a special motion that involves specific body parts which are the head and the eye. This motion corresponds to the adjustment of the viewed three dimensional images on the user’s display so that is can consequently reflect on the change that is involved in this perspective.

However phenomenal virtual reality has been, it has also experienced various challenges in as much as computer technology is concerned. Some of the biggest challenges facing virtual reality include: finding of more natural ways that will give users a chance to interact more in the virtual environment, developing of better tracking systems and finding a way to decrease the time that it takes to build a virtual space.

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